Reframing families: Transforming meaning in families with transgender and gender non-binary members
| dc.contributor.advisor | Burwell, Catherine | |
| dc.contributor.author | McNeilly, Elizabeth A. | |
| dc.contributor.committeemember | Groen, Janet | |
| dc.contributor.committeemember | Callaghan, Tonya | |
| dc.date | 2021-11 | |
| dc.date.accessioned | 2021-05-25T18:35:37Z | |
| dc.date.available | 2021-05-25T18:35:37Z | |
| dc.date.issued | 2021-05-19 | |
| dc.description.abstract | Although studies have been conducted on the experiences of transgender and non-binary children, limited research has looked at the parents of these children. This qualitative study explored the transformative learning (Mezirow, 1978) of the parents of transgender and non-binary children by employing the concepts of biographical learning (Alheit, 1994) and holistic learning (Illeris, 2003) as its conceptual framework. The research questions asked: to what extent the parents experienced transformative learning, how they made the cognitive-affective shift in learning, how their own gender identity development informed their interpretations of their child’s gender transition, and how they navigated any tensions created within a family. Applying life history methods and methodology, I conducted 2 to 3 interviews with 16 parents of children aged 6 to 29, most of whom recorded their thoughts in journals, and I wrote an autoethnography as a parent of a non-binary child myself. The findings showed that for many parents, holistic learning took place in two phases. First, parents experienced a private phase of transformative learning through a cognitive reframing of the meaning of gender and a relinquishing of the emotions that were attached to gender (such as losing your daughter). Then began a public phase where parents learned to advocate for their children in schools, medical offices, or courtrooms. Parents of non-binary children may take longer working through these stages and many participants benefitted from lingering at a particular place of learning as they processed their thoughts or emotions. Furthermore, a parent’s personal sense of gender identity did not play a salient role for most parents; rather, their value in authenticity or the ability to be yourself influenced their commitment to their child. A parent’s gender identity did play a notable role for two mothers who identified as feminist who found it necessary to revisit their definition of woman at the time of their children’s transition. These findings provide a better understanding of the transformative learning of parents of transgender and non-binary children who often need support on this personal and public journey towards championing their children, challenging societal norms, and promoting inclusivity. | en_US |
| dc.identifier.citation | McNeilly, E. A. (2021). Reframing families: Transforming meaning in families with transgender and gender non-binary members (Doctoral thesis, University of Calgary, Calgary, Canada). Retrieved from https://prism.ucalgary.ca. | en_US |
| dc.identifier.doi | http://dx.doi.org/10.11575/PRISM/38894 | |
| dc.identifier.uri | http://hdl.handle.net/1880/113452 | |
| dc.publisher.faculty | Werklund School of Education | en_US |
| dc.publisher.institution | University of Calgary | en |
| dc.rights | University of Calgary graduate students retain copyright ownership and moral rights for their thesis. You may use this material in any way that is permitted by the Copyright Act or through licensing that has been assigned to the document. For uses that are not allowable under copyright legislation or licensing, you are required to seek permission. | en_US |
| dc.subject | Transgender | en_US |
| dc.subject | Transformative learning | en_US |
| dc.subject | Non-binary | en_US |
| dc.subject | LGBTQ | en_US |
| dc.subject | Parents | en_US |
| dc.subject | Gender | en_US |
| dc.subject.classification | Education--Adult and Continuing | en_US |
| dc.title | Reframing families: Transforming meaning in families with transgender and gender non-binary members | en_US |
| dc.type | doctoral thesis | en_US |
| thesis.degree.discipline | Education Graduate Program – Educational Research | en_US |
| thesis.degree.grantor | University of Calgary | en_US |
| thesis.degree.name | Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) | en_US |
| ucalgary.item.requestcopy | true | en_US |